
The Parable of the Unforgiving Servant and the Cost of Unforgiveness
November 5, 2025
The following is an excerpt from my book Abiding in the Vine that gives insight into three revelations that come from seeing Jesus clearly.
When Jesus came into the region of Caesarea Philippi, He asked His disciples, saying, “Who do men say that I, the Son of Man, am?” So they said, “Some say John the Baptist, some Elijah, and others Jeremiah or one of the prophets.” He said to them, “But who do you say that I am?” Simon Peter answered and said, “You are the Christ, the Son of the living God.” Jesus answered and said to him, “Blessed are you, Simon Bar-Jonah, for flesh and blood has not revealed this to you, but My Father who is in heaven. And I also say to you that you are Peter, and on this rock I will build My church, and the gates of Hades shall not prevail against it. And I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven, and whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.” (Matthew 16:13-19)
Jesus asked the disciples a question of supreme importance: “Who do you say that I am?” There were many varying theories floating around about the identity of Jesus; some said He was Elijah, others Jeremiah, others John the Baptist. The same is true today. If you were to take a survey and ask the question “Who is Jesus?” you would find that there are many different views. Some say He was a great teacher, some say He was a prophet, others say He is a myth.
In the midst of all of this, Peter gets a revelation of who Jesus really is. “You are the Christ, the Son of the living God.” Jesus stated that this revelation came directly from God to Peter. This is the ultimate revelation: the revelation of Jesus. We never grow past our need to accurately see Jesus for who He is, and as we see Jesus, we will also see three other important progressive revelations.
1.) Revelation of Personal Identity and Calling
As soon as Peter received the revelation of who Jesus is, Jesus said to him, “And I say to you that you are Peter…” First He calls him Simon, then He calls him Peter which means “rock.” He was giving Peter a revelation of his identity in Christ. He was saying, “You are a rock and you have a calling and a purpose.” As we see Jesus for who He is, we will begin to see ourselves through His eyes as well.
2.) Revelation of the Church
Next Jesus gives a revelation of the church. “On this rock I will build my church and the gates of Hades will not prevail against it.” The word for rock in this statement is different than the word He used when referring to Peter. The rock that Jesus builds the church on is the revelation of who He is. Not only do we need a revelation of our personal destiny and calling, we need a revelation of the church. We are a part of something much bigger than ourselves and our individual calling. The church is God’s governing assembly in the earth, and every believer should be rightly connected to it.
3.) Revelation of the Kingdom
Finally, Jesus gives a revelation of the kingdom of God. “And I will give you the keys of the kingdom…” Accurate revelation of the kingdom arises out of accurate revelation of the King. The church is bigger than our personal calling, and the kingdom is bigger than the church. We need to see that the church exists to extend the borders of the kingdom of heaven in the earth and that Jesus has bestowed tremendous authority to His church.
It is important for us to grasp all three of these revelations. Some believers focus on their personal calling and disregard being involved in a church. Some are focused on the church but have no revelation of the kingdom or personal calling. Some are kingdom-minded but neglect the importance of the local church. All three are meant to work together, and all three are important.
I pray that we may have a greater revelation of Jesus and as a byproduct that we see our personal calling, the importance of the local church, and the power and authority of the kingdom.
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Abiding in the Vine is a collection of 40 devotional writings that are meant to feed your spirit and draw you closer to God. Rich with the Word of God and insights into the Spirit-filled life, each reflection will bring understanding and encouragement, as well as challenge you to go deeper in your walk with Christ.




